Follow my lead on this one. Let's say any project, goal, or path is a series of steps. You cannot cheat and skip steps to finish the path, and there are always enough easy steps to finish the path. Now, as you travel along the path, you find a block in your way. You come to the conclusion that the block cannot be bypassed without a large amount of effort. Put another way, it's like attempting to jump over several steps on a stairway. It takes much more effort, and there's a limit on how far you can jump. I would submit that the block itself is part of the path, and the steps to go through the block are there. What may be happening is your mind sees a group of steps as a single step, and refuses to see it as the series of steps it actually is. So, to get through the block, you need to find those steps, and just as before, take them one at a time, until the block is behind you.
This image illustrates what your emotions go through when taking on a project. Note in the middle is the "Dark swamp of despair", and the bridge over it is "belief / persistence". Once you persist over the swamp, you start to regain your confidence in the project, and can soldier on to a satisfying conclusion. The post I pulled it from is here: https://john.do/inevitable/ . I should inform you that the graphic is a refactor from a post by the same author in 2016, which was "stolen" (possibly) from "Steal Like An Artist" (2012), which was in turn "stolen" from Maureen McHugh (but the author published the credit in their book). I like the general concept of the really low point during the project, when many many people abandon it. This has happened to me time and time again.
You can easily identify a worthy desire as something that often pops up in your head as something you would like to see done. Other desires come and go and don't come back again, but the desires that repeat and repeat are worth fulfilling. When you have such a desire, you may be dissuaded by the number of steps to fulfill that desire. Here is one thing you can do to reduce that gulf. Next time you think of that desire, think of one step you can take right now to get closer to it, and then take it. That step could be one of a number of things: it could be purchasing materials, removing an obstacle, or other things. Once you have that simple single task, complete it. Preferably you thought of a simple task that only takes a few minutes to do, or is only one trip to the store. Next time you encounter that desire, you can repeat this process: either bring one more piece to the table or remove one obstacle, or whatever is needed. Eventually, you will run out of preliminary steps, and th...
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